#MeToo



I have stalled alot for many reasons, however having presented as a woman most of my life; of course #MeToo. Too many times and in different situations. Too many women in some form or another have. Sexual assault or hassment shouldn't be apart of womenhood. Sadly when I hear all these stories, I feel like now days, it is. It really shouldn't be. Worse of all 9/10 times women are not taken seriously and get pinned with shame & being made to feel they are to blame! 

Something needs to change... I shouldn't have to change my gender to finally be able to walk down the road in peace. (without be harassed by men on a daily basis.) & It never mattered how I dressed. 

It's only now that I am starting to be read as male, that I am left alone (most times) but even the other day on the tube, it was what 8pm and these drunk guys keep trying to talk to me, shouting down the carriage trying to get my attention, even when ignoring them, headphones on, they just shouted louder 😑 (Like I looked the most masculine I have ever looked and still same shit.) 


We live in a world where we have normalised disrespecting women. We have confused alot of guys with this sense of entitlement and that doesn't sit right with me. Also now living as man, or even before just being attracted to women, I am responsibility for my own actions. Period. Even with high levels of testosterone blah blah blah, let me repeat: I Am Responsible For My Own Actions. Don't get what the 'confusion' or passing the blame is about?! How could it ever be someone elses fault. For no other type of assault, could you get away with playing the 'blame the victim card'. 

Also for the men who are saviours, I acknowledge you. I believe you. But for the guys that just want to crack jokes and take all this lightly...nah, you need to sort yourself out mate! I want better for women. I want better for men. 

And no, not all men behaviour this way. Sadly though, a lot do. Like just having basic respect, really it aint that hard guys! I do believe that men can be better, and do not have to act in those ways. 

Actually in one really bad situation, wont get into it, but my actual saviour was a stranger, a kind man who got me home safe. I want more guys to be like him! I want girls to go out and have each others back! I want other Co-workers to speak up if they witness things they know is not right. I want bosses not to abuse thier power. I want women to not get groped at festivals or in clubs. I want a world where women can walk down the road and feel safe or without being objectified, Like that's not much to ask!  I want men to go back and find basic manners, make better choices and take responsibility for there actions. Anyway, I really could go on, believe me! but said my piece. 

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